The Parenting Through Separation Guide is written by family professionals on the Parenting After Parting Committee, including Claire Colbert of Family Mediation and Mentoring LLP who is co-chair of the committee. The guide advises parents of how to put their children first during a separation or divorce.

The guide is launched during Good Divorce Week which runs from 29 Nov - 3 Dec, run by national family justice organisation Resolution.

This year the focus of Good Divorce Week is parenting through separation.

 
Claire Colbert and Rachael Oakes, the founders of Family Mediation and Mentoring, are joining with thousands of family professionals to launch the Parenting Through Separation Guide during Good Divorce Week, an annual initiative by the family justice organisation Resolution to raise awareness of how families can separate amicably. Here is a link to the guide - Parenting-through-separation-guide.pdf (resolution.org.uk)
 
Claire and Rachael said: 
 
“We know that the pandemic has put huge pressure on families and even more soon those who are separating. Every parent wants to put their children’s interests front and centre, but all too often they don’t know where to turn for help and aren’t given the support they need in order to do this.
 
“It’s important for parents to have access to good, authoritative and professional advice that helps them to parent responsibly through their separation. We hope all local separating parents will use the Parenting Through Separation Guide, to help them find a better way forward for them, and for their children.”
 
The free guide is available to any parent seeking help during their separation. It contains advice about how to co-parent with a former partner, background on the common disputes that arise between separating parents, and how to talk to children about the painful topic of divorce or separation, plus much more.
 
Juliet Harvey, national chair of Resolution, said:
 
“I’m really pleased to have Claire and Rachael’s support during Good Divorce Week. Resolution members like them do really important work in their community to help families separate in a constructive and amicable way. The more families who know about and use the free Parenting Through Separation Guide, the better equipped they will be to navigate the challenges divorce and separation brings, particularly when it comes to putting children first.”
 
Here’s an extract of advice contained within the guide:

Top tips for discussing divorce with your children

• If your situation allows, try to have a joint conversation when all your children are present. Keep this age appropriate.
• Plan a series of conversations, including different follow up conversations, if your children are different ages. Be mindful that their reactions will depend on their age, developmental stage and their individual personality.
• Reassure your children that it is okay to feel sad or scared and showing emotion is good. They can always talk to either of you and ask questions.
• Remember you are a role model and your children are watching how you manage this situation. If they see that you are still their parents, making decisions together about them, then they will cope better.

If you have any questions about the separation and divorce process you can book a free 20 minute call with us by going to the contact/book page of our website or call us on 0800 206 2258 or email us at hello@familymandm.co.uk.

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