Why should I consider family mediation to help me sort out my divorce?

How is mediation helpful? Why is mediation a good alternative to court?

Family mediation is often considered a good way to sort out a divorce for several reasons:

 

1. Cost-effective: Mediation is generally less expensive than going through a prolonged court battle. Divorces settled through litigation can be extremely costly due to court fees and legal costs.

 

2. Time-efficient: The mediation process is usually faster than traditional litigation. It allows couples to work through issues and reach agreements more quickly, rather than getting caught up in the backlog of the court system.

 

3. Preserves privacy: Mediation is a private process, unlike court proceedings which become public record. This allows couples to discuss sensitive matters confidentially.

 

4. Reduces conflict: With the help of a neutral third-party mediator, couples can communicate more effectively and reduce hostilities that often arise in adversarial court battles.

 

5. Customised solutions: Mediation allows couples to craft their own customised agreements that take into account their unique circumstances, rather than having a judge impose a one-size-fits-all solution.

 

6. Better for children: Mediation is generally less traumatic for children than a contested divorce, as it helps parents remain focused on their children's best interests and maintain a cooperative co-parenting relationship.

 

7. Greater compliance: When couples actively participate in crafting their own agreements through mediation, they are more likely to follow through on the terms rather than feeling resentful about a court-imposed decision.

 

While mediation may not be suitable for every divorce case, especially those involving domestic violence or serious power imbalances, it offers a more amicable and flexible approach for many divorcing couples.

If you would like to find out more about how mediation can help, call us on 0800 206 2258 or email hello@familymandm.co.uk​​​​​​​​​​​​

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