How long does mediation take

Family mediation typically takes between 3 to 6 sessions, with each session lasting 90 minutes to 2 hours.

The duration depends on the complexity of the issues and the willingness of both parties to reach an agreement.

Before mediation can start both parties must have a separate and private meeting called a MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) with the mediator they are going to work with moving forward.

Sessions are usually spaced about 2 weeks apart, allowing mediation to conclude in several months. If mediation is being used to help a couple sort out financial issues because of their separation or divorce, the 2 weekly meetings can only start after full financial disclosure has been provided.

Mediation is generally faster and more flexible than court proceedings, which can take much longer. A typical court case currently takes 8-12 months and often longer.

Several factors can influence the length of family mediation:

Complexity of Issues: Simple issues may require fewer sessions, while complex matters, such as financial settlements, can extend the process.

Level of Conflict: High conflict or communication breakdowns between parties can prolong mediation, while willingness to compromise can shorten it.

Flexibility and Willingness to Compromise: The more flexible and willing the parties are to find a resolution, the quicker the mediation process can be.

Preparation and Scheduling: Being prepared with necessary information and having flexible schedules can also expedite the process.

Family mediation is often a couples preferred choice of the options available to help them reach an amicable agreement, stay out of court and keep their costs down.

If you would like to talk with us about how mediation can help you, book a free call with us on our website or email us at hello@familymandm.co.uk.

 

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